Rebecca, We can’t thank you enough for all you have done for us. You have gone above and beyond our expectations and have helped us plan the wedding of our dreams. You are amazing at what you do! Love, Stacia & Blair


Stacia and I grew up together with The Chateau Louis Hotel & Conference Centre as a key part of our lives. A family run hotel, they always say that once you work there for awhile, you become a member of the “Chateau Louis family,” but for us, it was different. I have a small family in Canada, so Stacia’s Baba quickly adopted my family as her own. I recall visiting the Fairmont Jasper Park Lodge for many years with Stacia’s family where her sister, Micki, and I would follow Stacia to the store to buy girly magazines and spend our days lounging poolside learning about some of the things that, at her wedding, Stacia’s siblings said she knew about best; relationships, skincare, and horoscopes. Years later, I would begin to date one of Stacia’s cousins and I feel as if Stacia is not just a friend, but truly family.




When Stacia and Blair became engaged, of course I hoped to be their wedding planner, but to have been asked was a great honour. Throughout the year leading to their wedding, we had to consider how to best fuse their interests and personalities; his the great outdoors, hers glamour. The result? A beautiful, glamorous meets wilderness wedding. Together, we came up with a design for their wedding that best suited who they are. All of the materials from the forest were hand sourced by Blair who collected willow tree branches for the centerpieces, cut pieces of birch for the table number stands, and built a stunning birch tree backdrop—of course, we added a hint of bling to suit Stacia’s tastes. Even the card box, handcrafted by the bride’s father, suited the rustic feel of the affair.




Although their guest list was over three hundred, theirs was truly a family affair. From Stacia’s Dido who sang in the choir at Church and her uncle who sang Ave Maria during the bride’s blessing at the ceremony, to her sister and cousins who performed with the Cheremosh Ukrainian Dance Company, a series of videos put together by their siblings who emceed the event, and Stacia’s cousin who created a rap music video for the couple, the greatest theme of the wedding was family. I must say that I have never seen such a unique emcee duo. Stacia’s brother and Blair’s sister wanted to include as many family members, so throughout the night, they played special video clips that they had made from short interviews that they had had with the couple’s family members. Some had the crowd in tears, while others had them in stitches. Even Zach Galifianakis sent the newlyweds a special message.




When I asked Stacia what she thought some of the most unique details about hers and Blair’s wedding were, she said that the Chateau Louis knocked down a wall so the room would be large enough for all of their guests. I remember sitting at my kitchen table with Stacia and Blair one evening where she looked at me with a puzzled look on her face and asked “well, how does this normally work?” To which my response was “most venues don’t knock down walls for a bride’s wedding!” The renovations and the setting couldn’t have been more perfect for this rustic woodland meets glamourous affair. With the family connection, the sentimentality associated with the venue, and the significance of family, this venue was truly perfect.


After a year filled with big decisions, this couple were most deserving of the surprise honeymoon planned solely by the groom. They spent a romantic and adventurous week at a private house on the island of St. Lucia. They’ve promised each other that they will revisit their honeymoon destination for their twenty-fifth wedding anniversary and I look forward to counting the years with them.





The Courtship
Stacia and Blair went to the same junior high and high school, but since Blair was a grade above Stacia, the pair never spoke. Instead, Stacia secretly had a crush on Blair. A few years after high school, the couple connected online where they learnt more about each other, including the realization of interesting family connections. As it were, Blair’s father and Stacia’s uncle had worked together at the fire department—Blair is also a firefighter, so they had a few photos taken at his workplace! As a result, their families were close, so much so that Blair would often babysit Stacia’s cousin, and Stacia’s uncle would become Blair’s sister’s godfather. As they say, it’s a small world! After going on a number of dates, it was evident that they shared something special, so they soon became a couple. With shared morals and values, while they have many different interests, they compliment one another very well. Stacia believes greatly that they are a special couple because they bring out the best in each other; “our lives are so much fuller, after meeting one another.”




The Proposal
At the wedding, Stacia’s father shared the story of how Blair asked for Stacia’s parents’ permission to have their daughter’s hand in marriage. Each time he tried to find a private moment with them, something would come up, but he persisted and finally found his moment before the pair went to Canmore for a weekend of skiing, skating, and relaxing. One evening, Blair suggested that they should go to the hot tub where he had placed candles and rose petals. Knelt down on one knee, Blair held open a little pink box and shared sweet sentiments with Stacia—words that she apparently does not recall. Upon seeing Blair on one knee with a diamond in hand, she immediately said “YES!”
Blair: I knew Stacia was the one, once we had gone on several trips together and she had met my friends and family. Everything just felt right. I just realized, this is what it’s supposed to feel like—when it’s the right person, you just know.



Favourite Moments
Stacia: My favorite moment was the walk down the aisle. I was so nervous before they opened the big wooden doors—I was breathing heavy and had butterflies in my stomach—but that all went away the moment I saw Blair waiting for me at the altar.
Blair: My favorite moment was seeing Stacia walk down the aisle. She looked so beautiful and I couldn’t believe that this woman was soon going to be my wife.




Advice From the Newlyweds
Get a wedding planner! It was wonderful working with someone just excited as we were about our wedding. Rebecca had so many great ideas, was so organized and really kept us on track. She was such a big help on the day of as well, we had nothing to worry about, everything went smoothly.

Stacia & Blair, It was a privilege to work with you on planning the details of your wedding. It is a greater honour to call you friends, but most of all, family. It has been a joy to witness your love blossom and I look forward to wishing you bon voyage in twenty-five years when you revisit St. Lucia. I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness, and many blessings. МНОГАЯ ЛІТА. Love, Rebecca
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Wedding date: 14 July 2012 | Location: Edmonton, Alberta | Guest list: 320 | Ceremony Venue: St. Basil’s Ukrainian Catholic Parish | Reception Venue: Chateau Louis Hotel & Conference Centre | Wedding Planner & Designer: High Culture | Photographer: Shandro Photo | Videographer: A Love Story | Gown Boutique: The Bridal House | Gown Designer: Maggie Sottero | Shoes: Christian Louboutin | Bride’s Accessories: Purchased from numerous vendors on Etsy | Groom Formal Wear: Rented from: Moores / Designer: Guy Laroche | Groom’s Accessories: Moores | Jeweller: Ben Moss / King’s Jewellers / Titanium Style | Stationery: Wedding Paper Divas (Invitations) / Self (Reception Stationery) | Cake Shoppe: The Art of Cake |Floral Designer: Flower Affairs | Design & Décor: High Culture | Rentals: Elegant Touches (Head Table, Damask Linens ONLY) / Infinite Event Services (Lighting) | Makeup Artist: Rivera Make-up Artistry | Hair Stylist: Ricci Hair Co. | Ceremony Music: Axios Men’s Choral Society / Ursus String Quartet | Additional Entertainment: Cheremosh Ukrainian Dance Company / Social Photo Booths | Honeymoon Destination: La Toc Sandals Resort, St. Lucia